An Angel's Avoidable Anger ...

Recently, i came across a blog, the author of whom i know not......I usually read blogs of people whom i dont know and it has been my self imposed policy of not to post any comments.I donno why i left some comment in this blog, May b i was compelled to write a single word in praise of her fotos, but ended up typing some random thoughts tht precipitated in my mind then....as if the was not enough, i asked her to visit my blog to know my take on her post....hmmm..I am not sure about penning my thoughts clearly .....Hope it does not irritate her further....

One fine morning, this pretty girl, comes out of her room and sees the misty morning fog in the garden lawns...Her sleep dissolves in the rising sun and sneaky fog... she decides to store this sceneray for posterity in her Camera, and also has shares these beautiful pics with others ...hmm..she has potrayed this heavenly morning mood in simple words and with stunning fotos. Later, she goes to school and translates her inspiration into some productive work at Lab. Our cindrella, then chose to enjoy the pleasent afternoon with her friendz in a Ice cream shop.hmmm...this lovely mood was smacked away by a lil message she recieves frm her boy friend tht gives a link to mischievous video ---it shows a man paying $200 to feel a Girls breast. Needless to say, our Alice in Wonderland becomes ...Raani Mangamma...She describes men as socially insensitive beings, purpose of their existence is to enjoy the carnal pleasures,hungry wolves hunting for women's flesh..bla bla bla..
there is certainly a grace in her expression of anger, .....I am pretty sure tht she has typed all these sentence in one go, like Sivaji Ganeshan Deliverling tht lengthy Dialogues in one breath, in the movie "Parashakthi"...She asks a series of Questions about men and their intentions/feelings as thy look at a women...thn she askes a typical cliche..."aren't u born with sisters? will u look at your mother like tht?" ..these are standard indian dialogues...I am very surprised tht this girl staying in the US for 4 years now has poured out her feelings in a very indian way (by this i mean pl satyed in US shud hve lil broader understanding of sex and soceity)..... I thought abt this at length in the weekeknd....this is a nagging problem tht i often come across....either frm my sister or my gal friendz ....I really dont hve a very convincing take on this, but i feel with great conviction tht "it has something to do with Women's mentality"....before i try to understand and analyse the situation...I confess that i really understand the nauseating experience of seeing such videos and being Indian women.....Any act of sexual provocation has to be condemed and in our society women seeem to face this problem more than men....In the quest to project the attrocities faced by thm, women tend to overdo things....It wud hve been a fine argument if she has just talked abt problems of sexual proovation..eveteasing etc etc..she streteched the argument way tooo far frm tht ...condemning Men as social beasts, hunting Women as their prey....ofcourse, she masked it all very nicely in the last sentence..."if u r not one of those men, I salute u" ...

Wat really pissed me off is her argument tht that Sex is just a mechanism for sustainence of man kind,...sex for any other reason is totally condemnable and not allowed......I cant really blame her for this...It has something to do with Hindu Soceity and their pooorly understood culture. It descibes tht the path to attain Nirvana shud be Devoid of Sex....
Personally, i feel sex is one more form of enjoyment...some ppl like to amass wealth, others like to accomplish....and some like our cindrella loves the beauty of nature...and in t he very same way there r ppl who like to hve sex.Western Socieity has really understood this concept...A women willing to sell her body is allowed to do so and Men can purchase this pleasure by paying the right amount...Some ppl accept this, while most of us consider this Blasphemous ...including me and i blame it largely on the way i was brought up....ofc ourse, i am trying to come out of these forced beliefs ...

I feel that "sex seeking" is not very symetrically distributed between genders.To explain this, let me pose the inverse problem!! what if i get video frm my frind(guy or gal) which shows a gal paying $200 to get feel of a man's flesh...
I wud consider tht as any other forward, ....certainly not get disturbed evn a bit... I am sure this is the case with most of the men. Why is this So? ...Is it tht women care lot more abt being virgin than men....if ye, why so?....possibly, the soceity has beeen very Patriachial....Men does not want their wives to think abt anyone else other than thmselves and women were very submissive....thy feel demeaned whn anyone other than husband appriciates thm...
< i hang this thread here, and complete it whn i bcome clear on my beliefs>

Body as Piece of Meat
if body has to b considered as piece of meat....thn why worry if someone smothers this meat...Sex is just a series of Elecro chemical reaction, feeble elctricity tht sparks very few neurons...expansion and contraction of muscles....why to get irritated or angered by this....hmmmm evn anger can be define tht way...okay i am not very articulate in wat i want to convey...its just tht "looking at body parts a piece of meat is usually done by some realised soul, like Budhha or Shankaracharya, who has realised the ultimate truth....anyother average human would certainly get tempted by 'body compositions" of opposite gender...

Evn our cindrella and her friend A has been in praise of Actor soorya....there wordings does not suggest me tht they were merely praising his artistic skills....Possibly a mild crush...hmmm..may not be...


Aside: Message to my sister:
Dont mistake me to b another Sex starved individual....I am trying to weed out all the beliefs,rituals and culture forced on me by "A Typical conservative Tamil Society"